Mijn bewondering en respect voor deze sterke, krachtige leeuwin en mijn voorbeeld heb ik reeds al duidelijk verwoord in mijn volgende blog: https://www.loveangels.be/music-is-my-life/. Deze speech waar Madonna eindelijk erkend wordt voor wat ze al bereikt heeft, heb ik al tientallen keren gehoord met de nodige tranen omdat zij spreekt vanuit haar hart en ook vanuit alle weerstand waar ze al heel haar leven tegen gevochten heeft maar dat haar wel gemaakt heeft tot de POWER girl die ze nu is. Ze heeft een rijkelijke carrière achter de rug en ze staat er nog steeds. Haar volledig potentieel heeft ze ten volle benut. Ze uit zich volledig en is seksueel provocerend maar zonder vulgair te zijn. Ik kijk naar haar op omdat ik veel van haar eigenschappen in mezelf zie en me ook kan vereenzelvigen in wat zij ervaart wanneer ze zegt: “Thank you for acknowledging my ability to continue my career for 34 years in the face of blatant misogyny, sexism, constant bullying and relentless abuse.” Ik ben ook een leeuwin met een enorme kracht en doorzettingsvermogen en laat me ook niet van mijn sokkel blazen al “proberen” velen dat wel.
Het is zo erg in deze maatschappij dat mensen er niet tegen kunnen dat je geluk uitstraalt of dat je positief in het leven staat. Ze misgunnen je, haten jou, verafschuwen jou en zien je liever vallen dan dat je straalt als een ZON ook al heb je die mensen “nooit” iets in de weg gelegd. Het is jouw kracht en uitstraling waar ze jaloers op zijn. Madonna is een succesvolle zakenvrouw en entertainer en is zeker niet perfect maar de boodschap die ze wil uitdragen en zeker in deze speech is dat vrouwen niet langer meer onderdrukt mogen worden in deze wereld. Vrouwen mogen ook aan de top staan, mogen ook hun stem laten horen en moeten gelijkwaardig behandeld worden ten overstaan van mannen.
Hieronder volgt de speech in tekst en de YouTube video. Geniet ervan en laat je inspireren! 🙂
[Anderson Cooper introduced Madonna and thanked her for giving him faith during his years as a gay teenager.
“First of all I want to say thank you to labyrinth. That was an amazing, amazing performance. Can I put this down?
[Puts award aside]
[Madonna adjusts microphone stand between her legs.]
“It’s better this way. I always feel better with something hard between my legs. 😉
“Thank you for acknowledging my ability to continue my career for 34 years in the face of blatant misogyny, sexism, constant bullying and relentless abuse. When I started, there was no internet, so people had to say it to my face. There were very few people I had to clap back at, because life was simpler then.
“When I first moved to New York, I was a teenager. It was 1979 and New York was a very scary place. In the first year I was held up at gunpoint, raped on a rooftop with a knife digging into my throat. And I had my apartment broken into and robbed so many times I just stopped locking the door. In the years to follow, I lost almost every friend I had to AIDS or drugs or gunshot. As you can imagine, all these unexpected events not only helped me become the daring woman that stands before you but it also reminded me that I am vulnerable; and in life there is no real safety except self-belief, and an understanding that I am not the owner of my talents. I am not the owner of anything. Everything I have is a gift from God.
“And even the ***** things that happened to me, that still happen to me, are also gifts. To teach me lessons and make me stronger. I’m receiving an award for being ‘woman of the year’, so I ask myself, ‘What can I say about being a woman in the music business? What can I say about being a woman?’ When I first started writing songs I didn’t think in a gender-specific way. I didn’t think about feminism. I just wanted to be an artist. I was of course inspired by Debbie Harry and Chrissie Hynde and Aretha Franklin, but my real muse was David Bowie. He embodied male and female spirit and that suited me just fine. He made me think there were no rules. But I was wrong.
“There are no rules – if you’re a boy. If you’re a girl, you have to play the game. What is that game? You are allowed to be pretty and cute and sexy. But don’t act too smart. Don’t have an opinion. Don’t have an opinion that is out of line with the status quo, at least. You are allowed to be objectified by men and dress like a slut, but don’t own your sluttiness. And do not, I repeat, do not, share your own sexual fantasies with the world.
“Be what men want you to be. But more importantly, be what women feel comfortable with you being around other men. And finally, do not age. Because to age, is a sin. You will be criticized, you will be vilified, and you will definitely not be played on the radio.
“When I first became famous, there were nude photos of me in Playboy and Penthouse magazine. Photos that were taken from art schools that I posed for, back in the day to make money. They weren’t very sexy. In fact, I looked quite bored. I was. But I was expected to feel ashamed when these photos came out, and I was not. And this puzzled people. Eventually I was left alone because I married Sean Penn, and not only would he would bust a cap in your ass, but I was taken off the market. So, for a while I was not considered a threat. Years later, divorced and single – sorry Sean – I made my Erotica album and my Sex book was released. I remember being the headline of every newspaper and magazine. And everything I read about myself was damning. I was called ‘a whore’ and ‘a witch.’ One headline compared me to Satan. I said, ‘Wait a minute, isn’t Prince running around with fishnets and high heels and lipstick with his butt hanging out?’ Yes, he was. But he was a man. This was the first time I truly understood that women really do not have the same freedom as men.
“I remember feeling paralyzed. It took me a while to put myself together and get on with my creative life — to get on with my life. I took comfort in the poetry of Maya Angelou, and the writings of James Baldwin, and in the music of Nina Simone. I remember wishing that I had a female peer that I could look to for support. Camille Paglia, the famous feminist writer, said that I set women back by objectifying myself sexually. Oh, I thought, ‘so, if you’re a feminist, you don’t have sexuality, you deny it.’ So I said ‘ **** it. I’m a different kind of feminist. I’m a bad feminist.’
“People say I’m so controversial. But I think the most controversial thing I have ever done is to stick around.”
“What I would like to say to all the women here today, is this: Women have been so oppressed for so long, they believe what men have to say about them. And they believe they have to back a man to get the job done. And there are some very good men worth backing, but not because they’re men – because they’re worthy. As women, we have to start appreciating our own worth and each other’s worth. Seek out strong women to befriend, to align yourself with, to learn from, to be inspired by, to collaborate with, to support, to be enlightened by.
“As I said before, it’s not so much about receiving this award as it is having this opportunity to stand before you and really say thank you as a woman, as an artist, as a human. Not only to the people who have loved and supported me along the way, so many of you are sitting in front of me right now, you have no idea…you have no idea how much your support means.
[Starts tearing up.]
“But to the doubters the naysayers, to everyone who gave me hell and said I could not, that I would not, that I must not – your resistance made me stronger, made me push harder, made me the fighter that I am today, made me the woman that I am today.
“So thank you.”